Vernon Stickman, Sr. Speaks Out About Suicide

Excerpted from Mr. Stickman’s website. In 2012, Vernon Stickman organizing a Suicide Awareness and Healthy Living Run.

Hi, My name is Vernon Stickman Sr. I am Koyukon Athabascan Native man from Tanana, Alaska. Which is located on the Yukon and Tanana River in the Interior of Alaska. I am 5’6” and 140 pounds and have been running ever since I graduated from high school in 1976 from Galena High School at Galena, Alaska. I am 54 years old strong and healthy. Starting from around the middle of February 2012, I plan on doing an ultra run from my home down West on the frozen Yukon river for about 300 miles.

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I am doing this for Suicide Awareness, and healthy living choices. In the past 20 years or so I’ve lost around a dozen relatives to suicide. The most recent and hardest one was when I had to bury my nephew in Galena of last year April 2010, then my youngest son, who was 22 years old in September, followed by my mother from a broken heart. The only thing that got me through this tragedy was my faith in God, my loving wife,and my oldest son Brandon, and my running. I wasn’t able to do much of anything else for about 7 months. Then shortly after that the idea of having a run came to me. I can do this. As I am unemployed and have time to plan this Great event.

I Vernon would like to ask for your full support and sponsorship to carry the message to all the villages on the Yukon River. Any amount of funds would be greatly appreciated. I would need good warm running gear cause around the time I’ am choosing to run it may get down to -45 below or colder and this time I have No long distance running winter gear. I believe that with your help and my message we can reach many people, who suffer from depression and can ask for help. I will keep a list of sponsors with me at all times to share with each community. Thank you very much and May God Bless you for your support. If you have any questions please feel free to call.

Sincerely,
Vernon Stickman Sr. (907) 366-7253

Galena Tour

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From the Playwright, Director,
Cast & Crew of the 2010 Winter Bear Production

We were scheduled to perform The Winter Bear in Galena, the home of Sidney Huntington, on Oct. 16. On Oct. 14, we received word that a 21-year-old man in the village had committed suicide the night before.

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Irene Bedard, Sidney Huntington, and Jayne Wenger at Galena Airport. Photo by Milton Diaz Perez

 

We didn’t know what to do. We were afraid that our play, which explores the causes of suicide, would be too raw, that we would be intruding on their grief. Yet we also felt our timing could be perfect to help those in need. They told us to come ahead. No one had any idea what would happen.

When we landed in Galena, 95-year-old Sidney was there to meet us at the air taxi. At a potlatch in our honor, he spoke eloquently about the need to bring the pain of suicide out in the open. He gave a blessing at the play and then he and his wife Angela sat in the front row.

We did our play. Everyone listened. They shared their grief with us. We listened.

Something in all of us shifted.

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Irene Bedard with teens at the Galena Interior Learning Academy. Photo by Milton Diaz Perez.

Everything that we have been given from this play comes from the fact that Sidney Huntington was willing to expose painful parts of his life to help others and that his family was willing to let him do this.

Sidney was there to see us off when our plane left. He made us feel loved, respected, cared for, and important. Through his example, he showed us what we have to do for every precious young person

Sidney Huntington’s Speech
Speech given at a potlatch honoring cast & crew of The Winter Bear
Galena, Alaska, October 15, 2010

Thank you for all coming to show your support for the play “Winter Bear.” During my early life, young people taking their own life was unheard of. The culture has changed and the way of life has definitely changed. The elder of those days taught the younger generation how to survive off the resources that the land provided.IMG_0489-M

It has been my sole goal to try to help educate young people to meet the challenges ahead of them to survive in this continually changing world. Education is the key to survival and to the prevention of suicide.

You, the young people, you are the future of this country. We need you. You were put on this earth for a purpose. Life will be difficult at times but those times will pass; your elders are here for you and want you to choose life.

God Bless you all. Again, Thank You.